Ok I really dont know why Im posting this; maybe because its 10:30 in the morning and my eyes havent seen the a.m. in about a month. Anyways I have nothing to talk so Im asking for advice. Actually I think I know how someone would answer if they read this so I dunno if I want advice.
Anywho; I got out of a 4 year relationship around May and I have been hanging out with this girl since mid summer but its never really gone anywhere; obviously I didnt want her to feel like a rebound so I have kept my distance but I know she wants us to be more then what we are.
I met this girl today; beautiful girl, who I dont know anything about just yet but we exchanged numbers and we have already been talking (that is the most work I have ever accomplished before noon I swear to god). I have no idea what it could possibly lead to but obviously this presents a problem for me. So to be shallow………(and this is not me being a guy this is me giving you the short story.
Summer Girl Pros: really strong connection; for the most part we get along in most situations, lots of same interests.
Summer Girl Cons: already acts like a couple in public, gives off that “I’m lying about things but when we get together I wont really like Star Wars” vibe.
New Girl Pros: really hot; like really hot. Seems like one of those super nice people who gets along with everyone; from the couple hours we have talked online it seems like we have alot in common as well.
New Girl Cons: I obviously know nothing about this girl really; I have only seen her in person for about 10 minutes.
So my problem simply put is this (again not to be shallow just trying to put this into perspective). Do I tell this summer girl about meeting this new girl? I have had multiple conversations with her about how we both dont want anything serious so do I really owe her that? Do I tell this new girl about my current situation? Even though we have barely even gone anywhere there is just potential to do so, do I owe her that?
Here is how I see it, I dont owe anyone anything. I am single. And niether one is at a serious stage where I could me misinterrpreted for doing something morally wrong. Ok I go back to my original statement……if anyone actually reads this thing which I doubt – uh……help me.
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